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Bachelorette party invitation wording (20 templates)

Planning a bachelorette means running a small trip behind the bride's back, with a price to announce early and deposits that refuse to wait. These 20 wordings say what needs saying without giving anything away, and they put the number before the program, since the number is what turns a yes in March into a no in May. Copy the one that suits your group, or drop it into a Confettine invitation page that only the guests can see, where everyone replies in one tap.

Keeping it secret

For spreading the word without any of it reaching the bride.

Confidential: [Name] is getting married, and we're throwing her a bachelorette party on [dates] in [place]. You're getting this link because we trust you. No stories, no comments under her photos, nothing that sounds like an excited slip on the phone. RSVP here, everything else stays in this group.
[Name] thinks nothing is happening before the wedding. She's wrong. [dates] in [place], meeting at [time]. This page is only visible to the people invited, so keep it that way and reply soon, because the house gets booked next week.
You're officially in on it. [Name]'s bachelorette is on [dates], meeting point [place] at [time]. Two rules: not a word in front of her, and an answer here before [RSVP deadline] so we can move.
We're planning [Name]'s bachelorette while she picks out flowers. Dates: [dates]. Place: [place]. If you run into her before then, you know nothing, you got nothing, you have never met me. Confirm here.

Budget upfront

The number in the first message, because the number is what creates late drop-outs.

[Name]'s bachelorette, [dates] in [place]. All in: [amount] per person, covering the house, two activities and Saturday dinner. Travel is on you. I'd rather give you the number now than spring it on you at the door, so let me know here before [RSVP deadline].
The price first, the fun after: [amount] each for the weekend of [dates] in [place]. That covers the rental, the activities and the groceries. If it doesn't work for you, say so in the note and we'll put together a one-day version.
We're aiming for [amount] a head for [Name]'s bachelorette on [dates]. It splits in two payments, [amount] at booking and the rest in [month]. Reply here so I know how many of us are sharing the house.
Two options for [Name]'s bachelorette on [dates]: the full day at [amount], or the whole weekend at [amount]. Pick yours in the note when you reply. Doing one and not the other is completely fine, nobody is keeping score.

Funny

For setting the tone of the group chat with the very first message.

Our [Name] is getting married. Before we lose her to a man who loads a dishwasher wrong, we're stealing her for [dates] in [place]. Costumes negotiable, choreography not. The guest list stops where the house does, so reply quickly.
We're on the final stretch, [Name] says I do on [wedding date]. One formality left, her bachelorette, [dates] in [place]. On the agenda, activities she'll love and one or two she'll bring up for years. Confirm below.
Wanted: accomplices for a weekend on [dates] in [place]. Useful skills include keeping a secret, holding a camera steady after midnight, and clapping for a shaky dance routine. Paid in memories only. One-click application.
[Name] is getting married, so we're doing this properly: [dates], [place], and a plan built so she laughs a lot and regrets exactly the right amount. Answer before [RSVP deadline], after that I start chasing people one by one.

Weekend away

For the two-night version, where the logistics need saying out loud.

Bachelorette weekend for [Name]: we leave on [date] at [time] from [place], back on [date] late afternoon. We're staying at [place], three to a room. Bring something for a night out and shoes you can actually walk in. Say in the note if you're driving and how many seats you have.
Three days, one house, ten of us and a bride who suspects nothing. [dates] in [place]. Arrive whenever you can on the Friday evening, big day on Saturday, slow brunch on Sunday. Confirm here, I book the house as soon as we're eight.
We're going to [city] for [Name]'s bachelorette, [date] to [date]. Suggested train: [time] from [station], we'll find each other on the platform. The house and the activities are booked in my name. I need your answer before [RSVP deadline], fares climb fast.
We're flying to [city] for [dates]. Budget [amount] all in, transport not included, one light bag, and a night where nobody goes to bed early. If you can only make the Saturday, that works too, just tell me in the note.

Short (group chat)

Two lines for the guests' chat, with the page carrying everything else.

[Name]'s bachelorette, [dates] in [place], [amount] a head. You in? Reply here, and not a word to the bride.
We're kidnapping [Name] on [dates]. Destination [place], [amount] each. One tap to say you're coming.
Top secret: [Name]'s bachelorette, [dates], [place]. Answer before [RSVP deadline], I book right after.
[Name] is getting married, we handle the rest. [dates], [place], [amount]. Are you with us?

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